corl, imo you are doing self work, identifying factors that for you, and possibly others, that are real and matter in your healing process..

imo, from i have seen, you have done the utmost to be balanced...

no one likes criticism it seems, but often, when we have the steegnth to do so, we can learn about ourselves and others and the world we live in...

imho, we have had our heads buried in sand too long and the price has been very high for all of us..

so, self examination (as you are doing) imo is very helpful to us all, and i for one, appreciate your self-honesty and sincere effort to express some very touchy and sensitive subjects...

i think it is correct, as others have stated, to always be supportive a t PC... it is challenging when frictions arise, and, again, imho, you are trying your best to help many here...

Sky is strong in her faith it appears to me... i do not wish to discuss her personality in public as she may not be present to defend herself... so, rather than naming names... what if we only examined issues?

this is not meant to 'correct' anyone ... only my two.... i pray this thread also will not be deleted... i need some healing personally, and i hoped this forum would contribute to that....

again, i oppose personal attacks, but, learning is a good thing for us all...

((((((((Sky)))))))