I dont mind being called multiple. But, I am very hard to offend with anything. I definitely dont feel as if I have a disorder. I dont have any problems functioning, I have a full time ( 60-70hr a week) job, I pay all my bills, and I am happily married. So I like the term multiple more than DID. But DID is fine too.
Definitely check out discussing dissociation if you want more info. There are over 400 articles, thousands of comments, and 24 videos I think. Tons of resources.