ragingvortex, I feel like I've done so many things and traveled so many places in my life, despite my bad years. I wouldn't call it exactly a bucket list item, but getting back to at least part-time work is a real goal of mine that I look forward to doing after years on disability. Though I'd probably never have the courage to do it, I bet hang gliding would feel marvelous, if fear could be blown out the door. I envy birds flying. I've had many flying night dreams in my life and all were wonderful.

Olga, my husband and I have established a tradition of going to beaches in Florida every Thanksgiving to avoid family dinners with my dad. We rarely get together for birthdays anymore. I do spend Christmas with my family, but it is always horrible because of my dad. I take a benzo before going.

Question: Who is the most supportive person for you? And what about them (or that they do) makes them thus?