Another thing that usually makes me overreact is when my mom makes comments on my look (usually bad) and when she turns the whole discussions around her so that it all spins around her.

i can understand her comments. i know i dont not care too much about my looking, but the other, when after we start talking about me and end up talking about how i hurt her feelings and how the whole thing makes her feel is harder to let go.

also, sometimes we have different ideas on how to act around each other and it often ends up in a stupid and avoidable fight.

some days everything is right and some days everything is wrong. today is a wrong day and i needed to vent.…

any ideas on how to deal with this? please?