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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Gosh, has she totally distanced herself from you because she knows she hurt your feelings about not making you a bridesmaid? I’m sorry she’s turned out to not be a good friend.
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I'm just ready for nothing that I expected from the friendship to actually happen. You'd think a bridal shower, bachelorette party and wedding is going to be a less "exclusive" invite, but I'm prepared for her to tell me a story about how she could only have X number of people at it so sorry, I couldn't be invited.
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Originally Posted by Sisabel
I know how you feel. It really does hurt. This is the kind of thing that happens to me all the time when it comes to friendships. I’m the friend people come to when they need something but I don’t get invited to things. I have no idea how to change that. I thought being a good friend is how you make good friends. I would have expected after 14 years this friend would have valued you more than that. All I can say is I feel your pain.
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That has happened to me over and over and over. I had a group of girls I was friends with in school and over the course of first year of college, they all ditched me without explanation. Stopped talking to me or inviting me to hang out with them because they remained friends amongst themselves. Same thing happened once at college where I was friends with a girl and then she abruptly cut off all contact. She called me and asked if I wanted to see a Broadway show and I agreed. I didn't hear from her for a few days and then I called her and she didn't answer. I texted, but no response. I tried the next day and nothing. She unfriended me from Facebook. I never heard from her again. There have been other instances over the years, but this is the most recent blow.