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Old Sep 03, 2018, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
I get the sense he's going to share his actual reaction in session. Based on some stuff he's said before, you know, the whole "You affect me, LT" thing, I'm expecting him to say something like "I felt hurt by the emails" or offended or annoyed or something like that. Which will still upset me.
Thanks to Piaf I understand how upsetting hearing such a thing could be.

Couldn’t that be useful feedback though? Because if you have that effect on him maybe you do on others as well, and maybe that’s caused issues in other relationships you’re not aware of but which have hurt you or affected your life?

It’s not really about fault, it’s about self-presentation, which can often be a key factor in personal and professional achievement.
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight, ruh roh