Anne, I'll reply more later, but just wanted to say that he'd never told me his email availability for the weekend. He may have thought he did (and will likely claim tomorrow that he did), but he didn't. If we'd had a regular session last week, then it likely would have come up at the end. But I only had the 30-minute phone session, since I was away, and he definitely didn't mention it then. Because I'd remember something like that. In the recent past, he's said I've never even come close to his email boundaries (I suppose I did this time), so it's not like I'm someone he's told the rules to a bunch of times, and I just don't listen.