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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
Thanks to Piaf I understand how upsetting hearing such a thing could be.
Couldn’t that be useful feedback though? Because if you have that effect on him maybe you do on others as well, and maybe that’s caused issues in other relationships you’re not aware of but which have hurt you or affected your life?
It’s not really about fault, it’s about self-presentation, which can often be a key factor in personal and professional achievement.
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Yeah, that's how he sees it, as useful feedback that could help me with outside relationships. Which I can understand, but is difficult when I'm used to ex-MC's saying everything I say/do is OK (well, until it suddenly wasn't). And of course, then my mind also starts wondering what other people in my life are thinking of me, and wondering if they feel how he does, and if I've screwed up relationships in the past because of it. Which can send me into a spiral of sorts...