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Old Sep 03, 2018, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia View Post

Another thing, I imagine, might be frustrating at times with this T is his relatively simple perception of interpersonal interactions vs yours, LT. But just looking at people in general, and the average, I do think you are toward an end of a spectrum in terms of how much you think about, analyze, and read into others' reactions and behavior. Perhaps this is part of what he wants you to see and accept, that it is not that people don't accept and respect you, simply that their natural perceptions, thoughts and feelings about relationships and communication are different and maybe less complex and detailed. That a lot of your anxieties might come from torturing yourself with perceptions and thoughts that are unique to you and rarely occur to others, or at least not in similar quality and quantity.
I agree--and this is from a person who DOES over-analyze relationships that are important to me and that i have a insecure relationship with.
Thanks for this!
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