thats hard to tell. the same thing happened to me. only i was 17 and he was 27. i gave in because i was afraid what he would do if i said no. the times i got him to stop were because i physically pushed him off of me and got up and left. but i didnt say anything at the time because i thought that i would get the crap beaten out of me if i tried to say no. so was it rape? statutory yes, but probably not true rape. but it still messed me up extremely bad and now, 3 years later, im still unable to have normal sexual relations because the slightest thing will trigger me and start me bawling my eyes out.

with her though, its statutory rape no matter what. but probably, nothing will happen to him. hell go on probation maybe. spend a night in jail. then once he gets out, he could be so filled with revenge, that it would almost be better for him to not go to jail. does she have anyone to go where he couldnt find her? i agree with wmd... it has probably happened several times, but now shes fed up with it and wants someone to help her out. authority figures typically arent very helpful with things like this. when i tried to get a restraining order, they brushed it off like i was over-exaggerating. and it was my fault for being around someone that much older than me in the first place. i was apparently i slut who slept around and just wanted revenge. so he went out and did it to another girl after me, surprise surprise.

something needs to happen though. thats for sure. has she tried to tell him no and he keeps going? i wonder what would happen if she attempted to get away. or maybe if he starts getting drunk, stay with someone else that night.