My first therapist kept pro ising to never leave me. She kept promising she wasnt going anywhere. She knew my severe abandonment issues.
But one day out of the blue she told me she was done with me.
I still have NO idea what I did wrong.
I did everything she said. I followed all her recommendations and advice and was always cooperative.
My best guess is, she didnt feel qualified to help me.
But she made my abandonment issues way, way worse and caused many problems for about nine years. So even though I did some good things with her, it felt like all that progress got wiped away when she abandoned me and I took a hundred steps backward and ended up with worse PTSD.