hi greenleaves. i'm sorry that happened to you and your mom said that. its messed up her thinking like that. i kinda been on the other side of it. after my mom died i found out that some property on a reservation went to me and i'm at least half native american. when my father in law found out and he hates me anyway he said his new reason for hating me was that i was no white and that's why i was in jail and had problems with alcohol before. he's never met our son and even said that he doesn't know what he is cause he's not all white.