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Old Sep 04, 2018, 11:14 PM
Daeva Daeva is offline
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Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: Underworld
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Originally Posted by PurpleBlur View Post
....what is the boundary she crossed? I read it several times but didnt see any mention of the boundary or boundaries she crossed...

refusing to accept responsibility for your being upset isnt a boundary violation...
I said it up above, but I'll repeat it cause I know a lot of people don't go through the comments.

Also the reason I didn't originally put it in the first post was because at the time I found out that she had found me on here cause I got upset at something she did and she confronted me about it, and I ONLY typed it here and she read it out to me. It was awful. But now she isnt my therapist so it's okay

The very first session we had together she told me she was my Mom and I was her daughter. She did that a lot. All the time. She'd call me at 10pm at night to talk, she'd text her friends during her sessions, she'd come in crying and telling me about her problems a lot, she wouldn't let me leave her office unless I sang with her, she would talk over me and wouldn't let me answer a question she asked me. She couldn't remember my name for the first 7 months even after a session she'd ask me my name. She couldn't even remember if I was her client. Every time I'd come and she'd ask me "Are you sure you're my client." After 7 months and you're STILL asking me this question I get a bit concerned. She was very touchy feely, whcih I don't like but thats more of a figure out as you go thing. She gave me her cell number and her home address.

The list goes on
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