Brian,
I've read all of Harvel Hendrix's books on IMAGO therapy. My wife and I took an IMAGO series of workshops as our premarital counseling; we worked on some marital issues with two different IMAGO therapists. It's all been beneficial for us. Hendrix helps one to uncover deeply held reasons for boding with your mate. If you don't work on your issues with your partner at the present, guess what, you'll just find someone else down the road and the same issue will rear its ugly head. The theory really resonates with me, and although it is not related to religion, it jives with my religious beliefs. Give it a try. Have an open mind. Learn what you can.