I think all of the posts above were well thought -out and for the most part were really true. I have found myself in the same kind of work situations like Perna and have had success with the same kinds of responses.

That said, I think that you seem to be also saying that you want friendships that aren't necessarily therapy-centered. But, more broad and reflect your interests and hobbies etc. Am I correct ? Anyway, this is going to sound sooooo much like a magazine article, but it does, in fact help. I felt the same way when my "babies" started living their lives and I wanted something out side of my job. More along the lines of friends who I connected with in more than one way.
I decided to just "jump in" and join stuff. I always wanted to sing in a choir and found one to join. I love working with photoshop, so I took a class. etc. I know it sounds trite. But, I can honestly say it has worked. I have put myself physically into the places where there are people whose interests were like mine. I also used to figure skate competitively and after my car-accident rehab, started going to the local rink. I now have met a couple of people who also like to skate AND we have some other things in common.

Does any of this make sense? If not, I'm sorry. I guess I felt like you were asking a question that I too have asked. Maybe not.....

tulips

BTW: did you notice that your "support" thread was on fire? That should make you feel very cared about and loved here.