Maybe you have made more progress than you realize. You stated that you have been institutionalized in the past. Are you living independently now?

You mentioned you were taking a drug in the past. Are you off all medications now?

All of those would indicate progress.

On the other hand, moving is stressful for everyone. Is he moving to a city you would like to live? Do you think moving would be in your best interests?

You do have a lot of concerns to sort out. Maybe talking about this with someone else that knows you would be helpful.