At least your husband was purchasing for good. My ex-husband was stashing money away to by comptuer hardware accessories while the kids and I were going to the food bank for food. When I asked him about money I heard him say he had put away to by a comptuer part, I asked him if we could use some of that money to buy food. He gave me $50 whole dollars to by flour, butter, yeast, eggs and milk so I could bake bread.