Today me and my therapist briefly touched the subject on what she does if a client doesn´t show up for a session. It wasn´t a talk about our relationship per se but I talked in general about other therapy experiences I´ve had.


She said something like she would wonder where I was but it was rather obvious she wouldn´t call me. I mentioned another T I had some years ago and that she once called me when I didn´t show. She didn´t comment on that, my current therapist that is.

In a way I feel I perhaps have partly misjugded her for being more caring that she actually is. I know many T:s don´t call or check up on their clients if they don´t show but I think it´s an important thing to do.

I´ve seen this T for ten months and I´ve never cancelled nor did a no show but something could happen to me and then it seems she wouldn´t try to reach me.

Should this be a reason for ending therapy with her?