Not calling to check up doesn't make her not caring. Some Ts see it as manipulation or testing and they don't want to play along. I also think most Ts assume if something bad happened, you would call or someone else would call for you. I mean, if you got into an accident, you would tell T as soon as possible, right? Plus she wouldn't go see you in the hospital anyways.

I don't think my T would call me, but I know she cares about me. I don't want to test her to find out. But she might call because I've been with her for 3.5 years, have never missed an appointment even when I don't feel like being there, and I'm always early.