I am always prompt and cancel in advance when necessary. I don't play games and act out. I am in no way unstable. But recently I got caught in a traffic jam due to an accident ahead of me and was 5-6 minutes late. My T was calling my cell as I walked into the office. I found it annoying because it was treating me as an irresponsible child who need checking up on--and told her so. Would I choose to end therapy because of her singular action? No, so why would the reverse be true?

Maybe the issue is more about finding some inconsistency/inadequacy/reason to walk away.