I've also been through these types of investigations. Unfortunately. But I didn't lose my son or go to court. It strikes a kind of terror into the heart of most parents that they could conceivably lose their child.

It is very stressful but you also have some advantages like your intelligence and ability to reach out for help and the fact that your daughter has not been abused or neglected. Maybe you can discuss with your husband and your therapist ways to protect your daughter, ways of reassuring her that everything is going to be ok. You don't want to end up with the whole family traumatized by this experience.

I would try to focus on just the day to day. Nothing bad is happening today.