((((((sabby&friend)))))))
I know that this is the age when our bodies are changing and we are having things physically and emotionally changing within and without that are new. and sometimes hard to understand. the way that i see it is he took advantage of her age, inexperience, and his position. people can try to blame alcohol or drugs and use them as an excuse, but one thing to remember, drunk or not, he still had that decision to make. His choice. Not hers. His fault. Not hers.
I do not know if she was at this mans house or if it is a living arrangement or what the situation is. But bottom line, she needs to get out, stay away, in order to protect herself. And I would beg of her to tell her story, to take action, take the control back from him and empower herself with it. See to it that he is outd and prosecuted. not just for her sake, but for others that could fall prey to this man also if he allowed to continue in his position and abuse other young girls or boys.
She may feel weak and unsure right now. But taking back the power and fighting for herself will do so much for her. and probably save countless others. And their could very well be others that step forward and say "yes, i happened to me too. He did this to me too."
Love and light to you and your friend. May God bless her with the strength and the courage to face these things. And also place a mighty hand of protection and healing over her.
recluse1
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