Hi Ian.........I had to post as well, and applaud everyone here for their comments and questions. I have never been rude or dishonest with anyone here. The one thing I have ALWAYS without fail done is : NEVER SAY ANYTHING I DON'T MEAN. Not in anger, or self-pity. One of my biggest peeves is when my husband rips me to shreds verbally because he doesn't have cigs............and then an hour later, when he does have them, says, "you know I didn't mean that. I don't think you are BLANK". Then why the hell say it?

I was glad to see you back. But like everyone else has said, you get out of this place what you put into it - just like your job, your life. Don't bring the rest of us into your feelings of hatred, go before the "2 weeks notice"...........or apologize and start trying to improve your situation and help others here who are equally in pain.

Mary Alice