I saw two who both claimed to be psychodynamic. The first made some feeble attempts at talking about attachment and bonding but never (one of the few times she showed good sense) told me anything as completely bonkers as the relationship is the therapy (she did tell me I fought the process more than any client she ever had - she was given to exaggeration. She also refused to tell me what the process was so I simply discounted it all and told her to stop talking as it was not useful to me). The second never mentioned bonding, relationship to her or anything of that sort. It worked out better for me. I have no better idea what the second one thought she was doing at me -but it was a lot less contentious.
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