You've already stated your husband makes X and that's over the poverty line. That means most likely you are not going to get SSI or other help. Though you may qualify for medicaid if your deemed disable. Getting help takes time, lots of time, I mean months and it's a continuous having to re-certify needing paperwork, ect. Hours and hours on the phone, all day appointments ect. You've started the process asking around. You're in a tight spot. Selling your house before it gets foreclosed on maybe an option. Have you called hud?

I'm glad you got an appointment with a T. Did your daughter's school ever call you back?