I agree with Zoiecat that it is bc she is responsible for you temporarily. My T is like yours with no extras, and they believe deeply the overall frame- regularity , predictability, the jesses and nos, create a frame or even a container that make us feel safer in the big picture. I think it is bs, and I wish my therapist would care more proactively , but they have complicated beliefs. I don't think this T's flexibility means your T cares less.