I've just gone no contact with my grandmother (minimal contact with other family members on mom's side). She did not respond to my message to her, but my aunt says Grandma thinks that I think she's the devil lol. We shall see how this goes.

I've decided to go no contact with my father as well. He's always had a negative comment about me not keeping in touch with him. I've tried, but I just need more time to heal (especially since he doesn't want to talk about the past hurts) and truly forgive him. He barely keeps in touch as usual anyway. Maybe it won't be so difficult with him.