Well I went to talk to him and it escalated to the point that I now own his phone AND his room is only to sleep in. He gets no access to electronics unless he's in the living area not the bedrooms. We are not going to the event. It just all together sucks. We'll see if there's a change in his attitude when he's unplugged from the things he "doesn't like" but passes time. I'm really thinking about throwing him in IOP. Something needs to click with him or I'm not going to have a kid and that scares the hell out of me.