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Old Sep 06, 2018, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom View Post
You've already stated your husband makes X and that's over the poverty line. That means most likely you are not going to get SSI or other help. Though you may qualify for medicaid if your deemed disable. Getting help takes time, lots of time, I mean months and it's a continuous having to re-certify needing paperwork, ect. Hours and hours on the phone, all day appointments ect. You've started the process asking around. You're in a tight spot. Selling your house before it gets foreclosed on maybe an option. Have you called hud?

I'm glad you got an appointment with a T. Did your daughter's school ever call you back?
I already tried hud. There are a few other places to try. I submitted a lot of documents online for the state site (proof of bills, residency, etc.). We calculated we never see 1/3 of what my husband officially makes in the bank, so it is no wonder things are rough, especially when you have health emergencies, big repair bills, a sky high electric bill. There's some hope that my brother-in-law in the Dallas area might be able to at least get my husband a face to face interview for an IT job. My husband is very good with computers, but he admits in his heart he wants to be a professor and do research at a university and not IT. But it might come down to him getting an IT job. It's so up in the air. If that happened, my daughter & I would probably stay here for until the school term ends; she will be finishing elementary school this year anyway, and then it might mean a move-in with my sister, though she has a huge house and eventually finding our own place to live there. Though that area of Texas is a hot growth area right now, so things are more expensive there. You can imagine if your house might get dangerous fumes should a nearby chemical plant have an issue (like our current house), it brings down the value of the house and the cost of living.

I don't know if selling or renting our house is a viable option either. This area is glutted with homes for sale or rent right now. There are 3 houses alone on my street, and I can tell you the street I live on is about 1/4 a mile long. This whole neighborhood is overflowing with rental signs and for sale signs in front of so many houses. I have actually never seen so many the entire time we've lived here (14 years).
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