I hate her hair, she looks like a boy, gets called boy by people who see her. As in is that your son? I told her she needs a new hair sylist hers can't cut hair. Shes never cut her a good hairstyle.
She can have short hair but it should be girly short hair. She said I was calling her ugly or something along those lines, I apoligized for her thinking that it wasn't my intention. I again apoligized for hurting her feelings.
We've been having the hair fight her whole life. She cut her hair at 2. Has often cut her hair, I make her grow it back. I'm there again, wanting her to grow it out and take her somewhere descent to get a feminine short hair cut. It's a buzz cut except for a little hair on top. I'm debating about continuing the conversation via phone call, but don't know if I should.
I hate her making her self ugly when she's actually pretty. She refuses to wear makeup, wears reading glasses all the time. Doesn't listen to me about how bad that is for her eyes. Just wants to be ugly. I never say that to her btw, but it drives me crazy. I grew up in a family that cares a great deal about appearances. And she anti that concern.
I told her I'd buy her a scale she doesn't want it. So I won't but they don't have one at her house and it shows.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P.
Daughter: 20
Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs.
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