. I am schocked how you feel about your daughter and her looks. Why must she look like you? And she is 16. Why must she wear make up? Refuses to wear it? You told her to wear make up? What is this about? Make up isn’t any kind of requirement. In fact most parents would be happy their daughters don’t ruin their skin at 16. How is not wearing make up, wearing glasses and short hair cut makes one ugly?

You post a lot about your mother and her controlling way and here you go...you don’t want to be like that with your daughter.

Is this all about you having issues with her stepmother? Dont take it on your daughter. Are you seeing a therapist?