If my mom had acted like you have with your daughter I would have done those things just to spite her.

BTW wearing makeup does not make someone look girly.....most of the time the makeup makes them look totally FAKE. I hate wearing makeup & for me it is nothing but waste of money & time putting it on. I have more things to use my time & money on than makeup.

You sound like my grandma who picked on everything. I believed in being natural & anyone that didn't like it.....tough luck.

Your daughter has a right at her age to be her own person.....this sounds like it is way more about you than it is about her.