(Sunny) Thanks for responding to my post. I am so cautious about how other's respond to, or interpret my posts. When people write things, they have the potential to be interpreted in ways that probably wouldn't happen if talking face to face. Smilies help, but don't always solve the problem.

I have read enough of your posts over the months to know that you are not somebody I would expect to be too demanding etc. You seem down to earth and intelligent. I would have felt bad if you thought I had tried to criticize you for being a worried, caring mom. I hate the phone too for exactly the reasons you stated plus a few.

Because I have been in similar situations as a mom, I have wondered when I am "going crazy" waiting, if my expectations for quick help/advice were warranted. Until you've been a parent, you can't know how scary those times are.

To be honest, I have marveled at your patience & understanding these past few months with the different roles of your t. & all the elements you have had to keep straight. I am actually a "sunny admirer"

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