I am beside myself as to what is going on these days..... it seems as though every time I turn around my husband and I are fighting with words and it is starting to get the best of me and him. Most thing we say to each other is often taken the wrong way or out of context and then the words of irritation start to fly.

I cannot talk to my husband about what just took place for every time I try he already seems to have the matter figured out in his mind - even if it is wrong and all he wants to do is continue to argue with me... telling me why I did this or why I said that even after I try to explain the truth to him from my side of the fence.

Why can't we both have our side of the fence heard and still be right - with in our thoughts and ways........ I do not jump on him just because his opinion is different than mine and it does not make him wrong - just a different point of view.


Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr - HELP! HELP! HELP!