Thank you for all these responses. They have really given me something to think about. It’s interesting to hear about experiences with T’s who disclose too much and I guess I don’t want that. In fact, I’m not even sure that I really need to know all that much about him. I do know that he’s a decent, caring person without knowing concrete details about his life. As I think about it, it might have more to do with the power differential. I think I feel uncomfortable being the center of attention and with him knowing all these things about me. I’ve said before that I’m independent in my real life, and I’m suddenly in a situation where I care what this person thinks and I’m not sure I like that and I’m not sure how it happened. It feels unnatural and scary. Part of me would like to shift some of the attention to him. I guess I should talk to him about this.