Dear T,
So...based on something you said today--is there a possible issue with us both having kids on the spectrum? Does that color the way you respond to me? At least when I talk about D? I see it as a positive thing, that you get it. But just wondering if it could be a possible negative to you. Part of me wants to ask about this, but part of me also doesn't want to know. And have you noticed, I've avoided asking anything about your son? Of course I'm curious if he's struggling with going back to school like D is--and maybe your understanding comments about that today were colored by your own experience--but I know that asking you that likely won't get me anywhere good. It's just a doorway to stronger transference, at least based on my reaction to ex-MC talking about his kids (and their issues) so much. So, I will not knock on that door.
Love,
LT