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Originally Posted by JaneTennison1
I can see why a T wouldn't tell you stuff. I love writing, it's a real passion of mine, if my T told me she didn't really care for poetry or stories then I wouldn't share these with her and we wouldn't have the discussions we do. So I appreciate that, that being said if a T wouldn't even tell me basics like if they had a pet or not I think it would make me crazy.
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Yes occasional disclosure about little things creates connection, I think. Earlier this summer my T didn’t answer a question I asked about whether or not he had a pet and this felt distancing to me. Several weeks later he did answer after we talked about it again and that was nice. He actually recently said if I ever *really* want to know something and it’s important to me he will tell me.