We have a lot to be grateful for and we are focussing on that and letting go of the other. Life is not easy for any one of us. We all struggle and the struggle is real. But staying down about something I have no control over is a waste of energy. Plus I'm lucky, my husband never barks at me for driving badly like my ex. I'm grateful he is kind to me. I'm also not gonna coulda, woulda, shoulda all over myself. Honestly , it wasn't the first time he drove the car.