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Old Feb 25, 2008, 11:09 AM
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Yes, but that's not transference. However, if T does something and you are angry at her, check the degree of anger and if it is appropriate to the situation? My T said my "thermostat" was broken :-) because I felt/reacted out of proportion to what a situation deserved/needed, reacting the same to minor problems and major ones.

If you're angry at T for leaving you and not being there for a week, eventually you will have other things you are doing in your own life and will actually be relieved (if you can believe it :-) that you have the week off too to do other things. It will be like school hols even though you like school.
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