I forgot. Too, you can have both transference and being angry at your T for something she's done at the same time. Loads of fun trying (not always possible) to separate out multiple feelings you're having at once but I'm sure you've had more than one feeling at once; same thing having transference from your adopted mother to T and actual problems with T. T will help separate it out, the actual anger for her mistake she'll be fine with, and help you and her deal with it and then settle down and discuss it and any transference like anything/everything else.