Hi joebruin.
Whilst I totally agree that it is your daughter's choice on who to marry and when to marry, I also totally appreciate your concern. Once she is married you lose control in being her protector, as her new husband will presumably step into that role. My advice to you would be to have a frank yet positive chat about her future plans and how her new medication is going. Let her know that should she ever need support in any way that you will always be there, and most important of all that you love her and wish her every happiness in her new marriage. This is really all that you can do.
It is also my hope that her fiancé is aware of her struggles, and is in a position to provide support and reassurance......however, a difficult subject to broach with her.
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