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Originally Posted by Wild Coyote
Oh dear. I am so sorry you are going through this! 
I think I'd tell him to leave.
I might also contact FIL, just as you had written.
Surgery? Well, your BF knew his surgery was coming up and he did this anyway. Why should you continue to take care of him? He's not looking out for your welfare.
I know it's a very difficult time. I am SO VERY SORRY he chose to do this.
My heart goes out to you!!! 
WC |
Thanks, WC. I'm disinclined to kick him out because it would go nowhere. Also, I'm inclined to have a fresh space for myself, though there is much I like about this location (though there are some things not so much!)
The call to FIL is terrifying to me, though I suspect it will be overall positive. I don't really want this to land on his plate, but I have to remember that's beyond my control. I can't sacrifice my dignity for this.
Ha! You are so right! HE chose to do what he did and the time in which he did it. Not me. It was profoundly short-sighted (among other obvious things). Really, the timing couldn't possibly be worse on his part.
Not my problem.
Well, break over, will write more later...