You are treating your daughter very unfairly based on this post. If she likes her hair so be it. Let her be who she wants to be. Being a teenager is hard enough without the likes of you imposing on her how you want her to look. At the end of the day it’s her hair and weather or not she wears make up is not your choice. She deserves to be who she wants to be. You should be cheering your daughter on not criticizing her. Also are you a super model? Because the jab about the weight -not cool. Your teenager doesn’t have a scale and you want to buy her one? You will only have yourself to blame if she developed an eating disorder and low self esteem. I would be thrilled if my teenager didn’t want a scale. Good on your daughter for keeping her hair the way SHE like it-that’s all that matters.