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Selfy- AGH! ME TOO! I hate when people ask that! People used to ask me this when I was with my ex. I wanted to ask them, "What did you EXPECT us to split up?" It seemed everyone couldn't believe we were actually lasting and they didn't care enough to conceal their surprise when we did. Well, after the relationship ended, it upset me because I was already upset about the break up, the question was a reminder, I hated to admit it was true out loud (seems more real, I guess), and I didn't want to go into the situation with other people. I didn't want them to ask why we split up, I didn't want to answer that, I had to come up with BS reasons or brush them off. Also, as you said, I doubt many of them cared beyond the gossip factor.
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"....I've been treated so long as if I'm becoming untouchable. I'm a slow dying flower, in the frost killing hour, the sweet turning sour & untouchable....(portion omitted)....Do you remember the way that you touched me before, all the trembling sweetness I loved and adored? Your face saving promises whispered like prayers- I don't need them."- My Skin by Natalie Merchant.
“The fishermen know that the sea is dangerous and the storm terrible, but they have never found these dangers sufficient reason for remaining ashore.”- Vincent Van Gogh
""Don't talk of worlds that never were. The end is all that's ever true."- Burn by the Cure
"In the end only kindness matters."- Hands by Jewel
Dragons-please click so they hatch and live!
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