I missed court the day custody was decided thus forfeiting custody. I didn't know it worked that way. I'm dieting to lose over 100 lbs i don't want my daughter suffering the same fate, but it's too late she's gotten fat. Was a little overweight but now much more. I told her she's pretty without makeup but it enhances eyes. I've asked her why she's not interested in wearing it. She doesn't want to attract attention to herself she says. But she is by making herself unattractive. She's attracting negative attention.

She's out of control with her weight her hair her overall appearance. I've asked if she has clothes that fit because she wears sweat pants and sweatshirts. That is so awful. His side doesn't dress well at all and she's become lazy like her dad. Whose thin and lazy.

I'm so frustrated. They said not to let him get custody and I failed he got custody. She's a mess. I'm trying to clean her up.