Wow, you could have just written my life over had you said BEER instead of WINE.

I was in your EXACT SAME BOAT A month ago. Today is the 30th day that I have quit drinking. It is a depressant and almost causes a vicious cycle. Looks like you're falling into the cycle in my opinion. I was never physically dependent on it either but, when I got home, it was "on". You'll feel much better if you decide to quit. BUT - you have to make your mind up.

I knew I was on the verge of having a real problem. I work for a worldwide Ad agency and I did it ...........it's called "functioning". I see a huge difference in my job performance. Having to work while hungover is certainly no fun.

I hope whatever you decide that it works for you. I can just tell you that the clarity of being sober allows you to face your problems head on with vigor, instead of putting them off.

I wish you the best of luck!