I'm surprised you use the finger pointing 'you' word instead of the "I" word. That's one of the first things I learned in relationship therapy. Using the 'you' word puts people on the defense.

Everyone is learning lessons at different times. Please respect where we all are.

I 'm inspired by your post and much of it is wise but it also gave me a feeling of personal inadequacy. I'm doing the best I can as we all are and we are all unique with different life paths and experiences.

I am glad you are doing so well and have overcome so much. I think you would be a great motivational speaker. Thank you for sharing your story.