So we cannot ask each other anything here? That kind of sounds wrong in my ears.

Also, I doubt a doctor always has all the answers, if I went to a doctor and asked "Hey what's up with this?" I doubt I could get a professional answer right away. Doctors aren't gods.

I didn't at all see the question as looking for a diagnosis, more wanting some input as support for the OP's own thoughts. Also we shouldn't discipline each other in threads, if we feel someone broke a rule, it needs to be reported, not acted upon without support from moderators. I have no reason to do that as I fail to see a breach of rules.