My husband gets BP but only his symptoms. He has gotten use to the logic leaps I can take. He likes me (hypo)manic. He can even deal with the psychosis but me depressed baffles him. He tries to remind me how good we have it, hugs me and sometimes cries for me. I lay in bed completely non responsive at times. He doesn't deal with "ana" well at all. He views it as me literally cheating on him when I'm not actively fighting my ED.