I totally hear you. My husband (although he has severe OCD himself) will not (notice I didn't say cannot) understand that mental illness is not a choice. It's not about if people ask God enough times and with enough faith, the mental illness will go away.

I have stopped discussing my medication treatment with my husband. I am absolutely fed up with hearing his, "So...do you think you'll ever be able to stop taking medication...." - especially when he desperately needs to be on meds himself!